2441. The definition of friendship :)

Remember the saying that no man is an island. A little bit over used but factual. We always need that shoulder to cry on, that love to depend on and that security, that laughter, that magical believe that even if fairy tales can’t come true, you’ll find a friend that would be close to you.

I’ve been blessed and lucky enough to find an awesome circle of friends. Even though I’m still an unbeliever of tell me who your friends are, and I’ll tell you who you are, I’m leaning towards believing. The only thing holding me back to whole heartedly is the fact that I have such awesome friends than I can’t compare to how awesome they really are.

I am often told that the friends I do have are the kinds people don’t expect me to have or I’m friends with people that no one expects me to be. It’s a very small world for me but I do know who to keep a safe distance and who to trust with all my heart. Because when I do trust you, I do it so unconditionally – to a point I’m willing to give my life to you.

And so this post is dedicated to one of the most awesomest person I knew from college, Andrew Bagay.

We didn’t exactly think that we would become best of friends and we aren’t always out together. But he’s one of the very few that I could be completely stupid with without thinking twice because he’d love me no matter what, that I could tell anything to, I can fully trust, and when silence fills in the conversations, it’s only because words aren’t enough to be spoken to. That at those times, it’s the silence that speaks louder than any word you can utter. I miss him a lot. I miss how we used to hang out everyday, how we used to talk about anything under the sun, how we just were together. But even if we don’t see each other that much, every time I see a comic book, a hand drawn sketch, an arcade video game and a Burger King outlet, I think of him.

I miss him. I really adore this guy. And I’m willing to do anything for him.

Because I know he’d be willing to do the same for me.

So to all the people out there who haven’t found their best friend, maybe you should within yourself first and make sure that you, yourself, could give your bestest best for a friend. And that maybe, just maybe, when all your efforts are in the line, when you place your heart on your sleeve, you’d find a person that would give his or her bestest best to be the friend that you need.

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